My Mom Is Like a Kite

My Mom Is Like a Kite

A review of My Mom Is Like a Kite by Lisl H. Detlefsen

Published on March 11, 2026

When a parent experiences mental illness, it can leave a child feeling stranded and struggling to fix what’s wrong. Using the metaphor of a kite that soars out of reach, as well as a boat that bobs and sinks, My Mom is Like a Kite looks at mental illness from a child’s point of view, offering understanding, comfort, and tools to help weather the storm. 

My Mom Is Like a Kite
Lisl H. Detlefsen
Illustrated by Nathalie Dion

Groundwood Books
$21.99
hardcover
32pp
9781773068534

In this compassionately told story, a child tries to pull their mother down out of the sky like a kite, only to find themselves bailing water from a sinking boat – all to no avail. Feeling helpless and often alone, with only their cat for company, they ask Mom if she will be OK, but Mom is unable to answer. 

It is only when they visit Grace the therapist, on one of Mom’s good days, that things start to fall into place. The child’s job isn’t to bail out the boat to help Mom. Instead, they talk about their feelings, draw, and even play games. And sometimes they don’t have to say anything at all. 

With delicate, whimsical illustrations by Nathalie Dion, My Mom is Like a Kite provides parents and children alike with a simple roadmap for approaching mental illness within a family. It offers a positive message about normalizing the need to reach out for help, all while giving children a tool to help manage their own feelings and fears – now and for the rest of their lives.mRb

Tina Wayland holds an MA in Creative Writing from Concordia, winning the department’s McKeen Award in 2021 and 2023. She’s published in such places as carte blanche, Headlight, yolk, LBRNTH, and forthcoming in Scrivener, as well as longlisted for the CBC Nonfiction Prize and shortlisted for Room Magazine’s Short Forms Contest. Tina is currently writing a book about her Lithuanian grandmother, funded by the Canada Council for the Arts. 

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